Pamela's Passions

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Sex.... Love... Happiness... Erotic Play...

Entertwined in so many ways Love for youself - enjoyment respect...

What really makes you happy?? Is it the sex its self or the flirtatious way

you interact... Is it that sexy passionate kiss - or the thought of what is to come?

I have found that the thought after the encounter - thinking about the visuals and

feeling your lover touching you licking and caressing you at the same time... It is being able

to let go completely and feel the passion bubble up into a waves of satisfaction and bliss...

It is all things that are not tangable yet tangeable at the same time... It is crazy - insatiable and

how could we live without it??

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My Swinging Lifestyle
Volume I

My name is Goldie (not really but that was my favorite name when I was a little girl). I have been in the swinging lifestyle for a few years and I must tell you I have met a lot of friends and had a lot of fun. All in all it has been something that has added texture to my life.

Anyone that has been in this lifestyle for any length of time can tell you that it is a mixed bag of experiences. Some great – some funny and yet some you would like to forget. I have been swinging as part of a couple and I know a lot of experiences I have been through are not unique.

Couples before you go into this heads first (pun not intended!). Read some of the things I have found that have affected couples negatively when swinging. Most importantly make sure you have a strong bond to each other and great communication.

Husbands

• Does your wife really want to do this? If she is not sure, take it slow and don’t push her into anything...
• Make sure you don’t drool after the other women/wives in front of your spouse. Women tend to have insecurities; if you value your marriage, (and really want to swing) you will keep your tongue in your mouth. You can feel that way of course but don’t tell your wife!
• Example of what not to say to your wife... “She is so hot! I really want to do her!”. All the while treating your wife like a bag of potatoes.
• Telling your wife to take it for the team is not acceptable! When I first heard this (someone had told my husband just tell your wife to take it for the team) referring to the fact that my husband may be hot for the wife but I really was not attracted to the husband – I wanted to laugh, my husband would never tell me to do that.
• When having a threesome (two women and you). Make sure your wife does not feel left out. I know the other woman you are with may be new to you, but remember you go to bed with your wife every night! Make sure she is happily – enjoying this threesome as much as you... If she is happy it will happen again!
• When going to swing clubs and parties do show your wife affection. If this is something you both are doing to spice up your sex life then it is equally as important that she feel you are both in this lifestyle together!

Wives

• Remember , this is only sex to your husband. You are his wife and the sex you have together is much deeper and richer.
• If you are not sure about swinging – or if you really don’t want to swing let your husband know. He is not a mind reader and to get mad or give mixed signals is not fair to him.
• Set ground rules so you both know what is acceptable and what is not. If you really feel there is something your or your husband should not do with the other couple – express it before you begin. You cannot get upset with your husband if he has no clue what upsets you.
  Example: You do not want your husband to kiss another woman in that special way he kisses you...
• If you find yourself getting jealous (even though you husband is being sensitive to your needs) just get over it. Jealousy has no part in this lifestyle, it is a basic human emotion and doesn’t always listen to logic so it may come up.
• Do not cause a scene , if for some reason you get mad or feel that green monster creeping in PLEASE don’t make a scene! Wait until you are alone with your husband and then talk about why or what caused you to feel this way... Just remember we are not going to church here we are in the swinging lifestyle!

This lifestyle can add fun and enjoyment to your lives as long as you keep it light and fun. You will find some people that do play games and just want to put another notch on their belt – listen to your intuition and you will find great friends and a lot of fun times.

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I am wondering how many of you are hardcore swingers & how many of you just like to dabble a little?

I would like to take a survey.... Tell me your stories and I will tell you mine.

XOXO

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 I went to a swingers party and had a great time. I loved the free flowing conversations - no real rules - I loved seeing women pulling up there tops and exposing there boobs. The party was really fun - but I had no urge to go to any rooms and participate... We came home and made love - with abandon and great passion. I begged my lover to explore and satisy my every desire - and I was satisfied in every possible way. Drained and happy we did go to bed about 3clock in the morning. I could not ask for a lover greater than this

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You will not believe what I have found!

It is a piece of furniture called the wedge...

It is something you all have to try. Talk about explosive orgasms. I thought I may

just die - over and over again until I was exhausted... Ladies... it is worth it!! Guys

if you love easy access and want to see every inch of your lover as you plunge into her

in every direction you need to get this. 

I think I should just set up a sex room and have several with a lot of fun toys. That is

a great fantasy don't you think?? I do think some fantasies should come true and I will

keep you up on this one!!!!!

If any of you have one and have used it please post - or if not your have to get one no kidding ... GRRRRRRRRRRR

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This is the beginning of an exciting time in my life. I have always showed my reserved side until I got into the bedroom. I love hot passionate sex and sensual touching. I have been experimenting with all types of things and I am ready to  burst at the seams. I can now tell the lurid details and exciting fantasies. Letting lose the real me!!

It excites me just to think about the interaction this blog will produce. I would love to hear from you as well - perhaps you can give me some really exciting idea's that will lead from fantasy to a fantastic sexual or sensual experience??

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